Hello everybody! It has been forever since I have been on here. I won’t attempt to catch you up on the past month, because we would be here for a long time. So let us just hit the highlights.
The kids are adjusting to each other very well. Maisey hasn’t quite figured out that, though she is the big sister, she isn’t that much bigger than the little guys. I caught her trying to change Lainey’s diaper the other day. For anyone that knows Lainey, you can imagine how well that went. *shakes head* But she loves her “baby Evie”; she feeds her, gives her toys, shares just about everything with her. Likewise, Ben is enjoying being a big brother. I don’t know that he knows what to do with “Mr. Charming and Handsome” sometimes, but they are getting along well, now that they have the cozy coupe races figured out. Evie has adjusted fabulously. Our little parahna eats anything and everything, though she has a love for Twizzlers. She is growing so big, and she has learned to hum “thank you” to everyone. She giggles constantly and likes to dance in her car-seat with the other kids.
Lainey has been a harder adjustment. She has her great moments and she has her sad moments. We are slowly figuring out what she needs, and as we find more and more things, she seems happier and happier. One thing is for sure: the kid is a fish! She loves anything with water: the pool, the bathtub, the sink, the toilet (if someone forgets to shut the door). Anywhere she can find water, she will take it. It warms my heart to see her splashing around, giggling and playing. I know that life with Lambie is going to be hard, but I look at her in those moments and I can’t imagine leaving her where she was. I can’t imagine my precious little Lainey growing up in a place where no one would take care enough to help her be happy. I know that it is going to be hard, but I also know that it will be worth it.
My favorite adjustment to watch has been Jasmine. Oh man, that kid is a goof! Instead of saying someone is happy or cranky, she calls them “happy pants” or “cranky pants”. She is learning more English everyday. She is comfortable enough now to joke, tease, and laugh with us. It is fun to watch her come out of her shell. She went to VBS this week at my parents’ church, where she stayed in class with Gracie. I was there doing music, and I was prepared to have to step in and help with her. I was useless. Mr. Tom was amazing during rec time, pushing her around in the grass, including her in all the games. All of the other teachers/helpers were super sweet about keeping her included in all the activities. And oh man, the music. Jasmine loves music and she loves dancing, so what better than silly VBS songs with actions to match? She had a blast!
I think my favorite part has been watching her learn that people here don’t care that she is in a wheelchair. I took her to my church with me, in part because I wanted to see how she would react to the band. (Boy, was she surprised when they played!) I was also interested in seeing how she would react to an entirely new group of people. I am so grateful to my church and how incredibly sweet they were with her. She was grinning and laughing the whole time. So many people came up and introduced themselves, asked her name and how she was doing, all without the slightest hesitation at her or her chair. It was so heartwarming to watch her relax as more and more people introduced themselves to her. It was like I could see the fear of people treating her different just melt away from her.